Community Guidelines

1. Build genuine connections

• Be truthful about who you are and what kind of personal connection you seek.
• Write respectfully and accept that no one owes a reply, date, meeting, or relationship.
• Use photographs you own or have documented permission to use.
• Respect privacy, boundaries, and a decision to stop communicating.

2. No PPM, allowances, rates, or escort solicitation

The following are not allowed in profiles, photographs, interests, messages, usernames, or forum posts:

• PPM, pay per meet, payment per date, allowances, or compensation for companionship.
• Hourly, overnight, incall, outcall, booking, or escort rates.
• Money, gifts, travel, accommodation, or financial support offered or requested in exchange for meeting, dating, companionship, attention, intimacy, or sexual activity.
• Attempts to disguise these proposals, exchange contact details to negotiate them elsewhere, or evade a moderation warning.

3. Automatic and human moderation

We automatically screen member-created profile text, private messages, and forum content for common commercial-solicitation terms. Matching content may be blocked before publication or delivery.

Automated screening supports—but does not replace—administrator review and member reporting. Context, repeated attempts, prior warnings, and related account activity may be considered during enforcement.

4. Safety and prohibited harm

• No minors, trafficking, coercion, exploitation, non-consensual content, threats, harassment, extortion, fraud, scams, doxxing, or impersonation.
• No illegal goods, money laundering, sanctions evasion, deceptive investment pitches, or financial-recovery schemes.
• No malware, scraping, spam, mass solicitation, account interference, or manipulation of discovery and reports.

5. Enforcement

We may block a submission, remove content, issue a warning, restrict messaging, suspend or delete an account, preserve relevant evidence, and cooperate with lawful authorities. Serious safety violations or repeated commercial solicitation may result in immediate account removal.